Embracing My Journey: A Love Letter to My Younger Self
Tijaunna Thames Francis,
September 2023
My Dearest Younger Self,
As I pen this letter to you, I am overwhelmed with emotions, reflecting on the journey that has brought us to this point. I want you to know, first and foremost, that you are loved deeply. Your journey, though marked by challenges, is also paved with resilience and strength.
Younger Tiajuanna, you may not fully comprehend the weight of the diagnosis you received at the age of 30, but I want you to understand that it is just a part of your story, not the entirety of it. It’s a challenge that will teach you to love yourself even more profoundly, something you thought you were doing already. You will learn that love starts from within, and you will embark on a path of self-discovery that will amaze you.
Your journey will be a testament to the power of faith and self-love. Remember, you are not confined to a box; you can achieve anything you set your mind to. The road may be tough at times, but I promise you, it will be worth it.
I want to remind you of the wisdom found in the words of an Ethiopian proverb: “He who conceals their disease cannot expect to be cured.” Embrace your truth, seek help when needed, and surround yourself with love and support.
As you age, don’t forget to date yourself, to treat yourself with kindness and care. Life is a journey, and you deserve to savor every moment. Explore new places, enjoy delicious meals, and pamper yourself with staycations. Your well-being matters, and these moments of self-indulgence will be a testament to your self-love.
Through the years, you will encounter people who inspire you. They won’t be just one person but a community of individuals who have walked a similar path. They will show you the power of resilience and growth. Their stories will remind you that you, too, can evolve, no matter where you start.
Always remember that you are the expert of your own experience. Pay attention to your body, seek medical advice when necessary, and collaborate with your care team. You have the strength to overcome challenges and live a life filled with love, joy, and peace.
Younger Tiajuanna, you have so much to look forward to as you age. Despite the trials and tribulations, you will experience triumphs. You will find love in unexpected places, and your heart will be full. Your journey will include the nurturing of many children, and you will play a significant role in their lives. You will have a loving husband and a fur baby who will fill your life with joy.
Though the diagnosis may seem insurmountable at times, know that it is just one chapter in your life. Embrace the possibilities and keep your heart open to love and growth. Your journey will be a beautiful tapestry of experiences, and you will continue to inspire others along the way.
With all my love and admiration,
Resilient Tiajuanna
